Working with Botis: incense, true answers, and reconciliation

Botis, and the two questions this work turns on

In the Grimoire Companion entry, Botis is a President who tells all things past and to come, and who reconciles friends and enemies. Those two points give this article its shape, and they belong together rather than being two separate workings squeezed into one. A working with Botis is for a situation where you need a true answer about what happened or what is coming, and where a relationship needs reconciling, whether that relationship is with a friend, a former friend, or someone who has become an enemy in the course of a dispute.

Notice how often those two needs arrive together. A friendship breaks, and each side is left with a different version of what happened. An enemy is made, and the story of how it happened hardens on both sides until neither side can hear the other. In both cases the first problem is not yet the reconciliation itself. The first problem is that the truth of the matter is obscured, by anger, by pride, by distance, or simply by time. A working that asks for a clear answer first, and for reconciliation second, is in the right order. Reconciliation built on a false version of events does not hold.

That is why this article keeps coming back to preparation and to a clear, single-sentence purpose. Before you light anything, be able to say, in one sentence, what you want to know truly, and which relationship you want reconciled. If you cannot say it in one sentence, you are not ready to begin. Write it down, leave it overnight, and come back to see if it still reads true. That pause is part of the work, not a delay in it.

Incense is not background scent

Incense is not background scent for this work. It is part of the working itself. That corrects a habit many practitioners bring into the room without noticing it. We are used to scent in ordinary life being pleasant, or atmospheric, or something that makes a room feel nicer. In ritual work, incense does a different job. It marks the time as set apart, it fills the space you are working in, and it stays with you through the working, in a way a spoken word does not.

When you light incense for spirit work and spellwork with Botis, you are not adding decoration to a working that would be the same without it. You are changing the room you are working in, and you are changing your own attention along with it. The smoke, the scent, and the act of lighting itself all tell you, in a physical way, that you have begun. That beginning matters, because a working that has no clear beginning often has no clear end either, and it drifts.

So treat the lighting as a step in the work, not as preparation for the work. Do it deliberately, name the purpose in your own words if that is part of your practice, and then give the room a moment to settle before you go on to anything else.

Starting with the work, not with the tool

Spirit work is not shopping, and incense does not do the work for you. Before you light anything, be clear about why you are doing this working, what you are asking for, and what you are prepared to do yourself. A vague purpose produces a vague working, and a vague working is hard to read afterwards. If you are working in the Goetia system, work from the instructions and teaching you already follow in that system. A general article like this one is not a substitute for proper teaching, and it should not be used to invent a purpose for a spirit you have not studied.

Ask yourself, plainly, whether this is the right working at all. Is the question you want answered a question that can be answered truly, or are you asking to be told what you already want to hear? Is the reconciliation you want one that the other person could freely enter, or are you asking for a reconciliation that would have to be forced? Those are different matters, and they should be faced before the working, not discovered halfway through it. Also ask whether there is ordinary-world work that should be done first, or at the same time. Ritual work is not a substitute for dealing with a legal matter, a safety matter, or a medical matter in the ordinary world. If any of those apply, deal with them first.

Preparing the room

Preparation is most of the work, and with incense that is literally true, because the room is the thing the incense acts on. Clear the space you will use, physically, and set it aside for this purpose. Put away the things that pull your attention elsewhere. If you have a regular working space, use it. If you do not, choose one place and use it consistently for this working, so the place itself starts to carry the association.

Ventilation matters, in a practical sense that is easy to overlook when you are focused on the ritual side. A room that is completely sealed will fill with smoke quickly, and a room that is wide open will lose the scent before the working is done. Find a balance that works for your space: enough air to breathe comfortably, enough containment that the scent remains present through the working. Open a window a little, or leave a door ajar, and see how your room behaves before the night of the working, not during it.

Set out what you will need before you light anything: the incense, a safe burner or charcoal arrangement that you have used before, and a seal or tool if your practice calls for one. Fumbling for a tool after the incense is lit breaks the very attention the incense is meant to hold.

Preparing yourself

Then prepare yourself. Bathe, or at least wash your hands and face, and change into clothes you do not wear for ordinary errands. This is not about looking a certain way for anyone else. It is about marking, for yourself, that this time is set apart. Eat simply beforehand if you can, and avoid starting a working when you are exhausted, drunk, or already agitated. A clear head is a working tool, just as much as incense is, and it matters doubly in a working whose point is a true answer. You cannot hear a true answer clearly if you arrive already shouting, inwardly or outwardly.

Know what you are going to say, in your own words, and know what you are not going to say. A petition that tries to cover every possible outcome usually covers none of them well. Keep it direct, keep it honest, and keep it to the matter at hand. In a Botis working, that means naming the question plainly, and naming the relationship plainly, rather than wrapping both in general language about peace or truth in the abstract. The abstract version is easier to say, and it is also easier to misread afterwards.

Why incense, and why this incense

Incense works in a room in a way that anointing alone does not. Oil marks and anoints, and it stays on the skin or on a tool. Incense fills the space itself. It is present whether you are looking at it or not, and it is present for the whole working, not just at the moment you apply it. That presence is useful when a working needs time: time to speak, time to listen, time to sit quietly and notice what changes, and time to let an answer form that is not simply the first thought that came to mind.

The Botis incense offered here is hand made in the same way as the other incenses on this site. Each batch is hand made when you order it, unless a batch has just recently been made. The incenses made here are of a quality that Athena uses herself for magical work. They work well enough that she uses them successfully for spirit work, work for clients, as well as her own spellwork.

That made-to-order point matters here, too. It means the incense has not been sitting, opened and closed, through other people's orders. It is made for your order, and then blessed by Athena herself before it is sent out. No promise about what it will do for you is made here, only that it is made by hand, for this work, and not mass produced. That wording is about the magical work itself, not about delivery dates for physical items.

Working with the seal, if your practice calls for one

If your practice calls for a seal, Botis work is a good place to use the general ways of working with a seal that run through this site: holding it, putting it under a candle, putting oil on it, carrying it with you, wearing it as a pendant, or showing it to your desired person, as your practice requires. Those are not six separate rituals. They are ways of keeping the seal in the working, rather than leaving it as a picture on a shelf.

If you are fumigating a seal for later use, that is also a recognised use of incense in this kind of work: to start a working, and for fumigating the tools and talismans that will be used in it. Do that fumigation deliberately, too, passing the item through the smoke with the purpose in mind, rather than waving it through quickly and putting it away. A seal prepared in that way, for a question about the past or the future, or for a reconciliation, is then carried or kept according to your practice, and the working itself is what you record and observe afterwards.

A simple working order, to adapt to your own practice

The following is a general order, not a fixed script. Adapt it to the system you already work in, and to the instructions you already follow for Goetia work. First, prepare the room and yourself, as above. Second, set out the incense, the burner, and any seal or tool you will use. Third, light the incense and let the space settle. Fourth, speak your petition, clearly and once, rather than repeating it until it loses its shape: the question, plainly, and the reconciliation, plainly. Fifth, sit quietly for a time and listen, rather than filling every moment with more words. Sixth, close the working properly, in whatever way your practice requires, and put the tools away in their proper place.

Afterwards, write down what you did, when you did it, and what you noticed. Not what you hoped would happen, but what actually happened, in plain language. That record is what lets you tell, weeks later, whether anything changed, and whether that change had anything to do with the work. Note the incense itself in that record: how much you used, how the room behaved, how long the scent remained. Those practical details are part of learning how to work with incense well, not a distraction from it.

What not to do

Do not burn incense in a room where it is unsafe to do so, and do not leave a burner unattended. Use a safe burner, on a heat-proof surface, away from curtains, papers, and anything that could catch, and stay with it for the whole working. A working that ends in a fire risk has not been prepared properly.

Do not use incense as a substitute for the rest of the working. Lighting incense and then doing nothing else, with no petition, no attention, and no closing, is not spirit work. It is just a room that smells different. The incense supports the work, it does not replace it.

If you have sensitivities to smoke or to particular incense ingredients, test carefully, ventilate well, or choose a different form of working. If the incense makes you cough, or gives you a headache, that is information, not a test of dedication. Stop, ventilate, and reconsider how, and how much, you use.

Keeping a record, and knowing when to stop

Keep a short record for each working: date, purpose in one sentence, incense used, what you did, and what you noticed afterwards, over days and weeks, not just on the night itself. If nothing changes, that is also information. It may mean the petition was unclear, the timing was wrong, the work was not appropriate, or simply that the situation needs a different approach. In a reconciliation working, watch in particular for what actually happens between you and the other person, in ordinary conversation, not only for feelings on the night of the working.

Do not repeat the same working endlessly in the hope that repetition alone will force a result. Do the work properly, once, observe, and then decide, calmly, whether a second working, a different approach, or no further working is the right next step. Repetition without reflection is not persistence. It is noise.

Botis incense

Incense is not background scent for this work. It is part of the working itself.

I hand make Botis incense myself, in small batches, when you order, and I bless it myself before it is sent out. It is incense I use myself for spirit work and spellwork with Botis, not a bulk incense relabelled for the purpose. I make no promise about what it will do for you, only that it is made by hand, for this work.

If you want the incense for that work, this is the one I offer: Botis Goetia incense, $44 CAD. View the product

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